My spouse was awarded $90,000 from my 401(k) in our divorce. How is that fair?
I retired in 2020 and subsequently went through a divorce a few years later. As part of the division of assets, approximately $90,000 was awarded to my ex-spouse from my 401(k). Is this normal, and does that kind of arrangement sound fair to you?
Earlier in my career, while I was still working, I went through another divorce. I was able to replenish the funds distributed from my retirement plan on a pretax basis, in addition to making my regular contributions. Is it possible to do something similar now that I am retired?